that my experiences in life taught me is to love unconditionally, without fearing hurt. To give love with both hands- not as an exchange with one hand to give and one to take from. I have been hurt before when I have loved people. Sometimes, people get so badly hurt that they carry it with them and decide to hurt others before others hurt them. They wear glasses that blind them from seeing love. I've experienced this many times from others; my first reaction is a sad smile. Yes, it is better to be safe than sorry, but for how long can one guard his or her heart? Love is a risk- but so is life.
Life has also taught me to give people space, because even if I can clearly see the issue at hand, at the end of the day, who am I to know what's best for someone else? If they need space, I have enough respect for them to move aside. Often, especially in my generation, affection is mistaken for neediness. It hurts me when people misread it, because I reserve my affectionate side for a chosen few. Still, I understand; I always do.
I also learned that being passionate does equal mean being dramatic. I am an intense person, but I have no affinity for drama outside of the stage. I demonstrate passion if I care for someone, but I prefer levelheaded discussions. I do tend to find myself in dramatic scenarios, but I try to remain calm. I try but fail sometimes.
Mes amis, c'est la vie. La vie compliquee, la vie difficile, et quelquefois, la triste vie. Mais toujours, La Belle Vie.
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